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Question About Gay Sex? Ok I've seen many gay porn videos and movies, but I'm really wondering what normal gay sex is like without the makeup and stuff. And I'm really curious on how I would clean myself for it and where the "***" would go after we've both ejaculated. My friends said that after they had sex their boyfriends they cuddled with them immediately after sex and I was afraid to ask where the *** went. The only thing I know is that the tops *** goes into a condom and he throws it away but where does the bottoms go? And what if the couple is having sex bareback? I just need to know where the *** goes so that it won't be akward when I have sex and also how do I prepare myself and clean myself before hand so there are no "messes" :(
thx | By "gay sex" I assume you mean anal sex.
Who cares where the *** ends up? It doesn't really matter. If you're really worried about it, keep a towel handy for a quick clean up. Honestly, sticky cuddles are better immediately after sex, much better than worrying about mess. Plus, you can always shower together after.
As for presex, a shower, and an enema, if you really want. | Why have M2M XXX videos suddenly shifted to a 'bareback is ok' stance? I know for a fact that the gay XXX video market was a pioneer in the condoms only safe(r) sex movement. Slowly the str8 XXX market followed. But lately I have seen a huge rising of bareback videos on the market. I am just baffled, I don't know why these exist. Some may argue they have a right to make them, but what sort of message does this send to people? I am not looking for validation here, in fact if somebody can point out a well based argument then please do. | Such films, produced exclusively by smaller studios, are highly controversial within the industry because of the risk of contracting HIV. Some call bareback movies "snuff films." The Gay Video News Magazine Awards ceremony bans such films from even being nominated, though they are reviewed in the organization's magazine.
Major studios used to refuse to hire models who had appeared in bareback films, though that restriction has relaxed. Still, none of the majors condone the production of bareback films.
A smaller San Francisco studio called Treasure Island Media specializes in bareback films, however, and "people have definitely responded to it, and we have a pretty solid fan base," said Randy Johnson, a producer for the studio who also screens potential models for films. As for the threat of HIV, Johnson said the studio matches people of the same HIV-status and "nobody is being put at risk."
Johnson called the industry and award ban "hypocritical" because "there are no degrees; condom or no condom, it is all pornography."
The images and practices the studios do show sometimes concern people like John Karr, who has for 30 years reviewed gay adult movies for the Bay Area Reporter, the Castro neighborhood paper.
Karr said he wonders about the impact of porn on the sex lives of average gay men, whether it leads them into excessive fringe and fetish practices. Two movies up for awards this weekend -- "Justice" and "Folsom Filth" -- were both produced by San Francisco studios and portray hardcore and violent sexual acts.
"The very profusion of the gay sex film industry has led to super-performers being developed that do not represent the everyday person and the everyday person thinks that's how he should be acting -- and the circle continues," Karr said, adding, "This is something to view in wonderment, instead of condemnation." | Guys: How do you avoid the pressure to "bareback"? This is a serious question...
So many gay guys in their 20s are so flippant about condoms and HIV that I am constantly being asked about engaging in "barebacking"...it's outrageous!
The porn industry isnt helping either...by glamorising unsafe sex in their video's....
Young gay guys seem to think "It wont happen to me" or "You die from HIV anymore. It's just a managable illness"...
Why is this? Why is it considered "un-cool" to use condoms? Why should I have to keep declining offers? Do we need more education campaigns educating people? | | I honestly think it's down to self-esteem issues. A lot of gay guys don't think very much of themselves, so they live for quick pleasures. I don't think education would help - most people know the basic facts, and many just choose to ignore them. |
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